Just Say No

Last night, I had to put an end to seeing a regular client of mine due to pricing issues. He was my 2nd client ever, but he does have  slight trust issue with me (he lied about writing a review). I realized that he was taking advantage of the fact that I'm new to this industry. He is always only looking for 'new' girls on RB and I never understood why. But he would always come back to me. After reading a blog about types of clients, I realized he was a the type of client who uses new girls and takes advantage of their lack of knowledge and assertiveness. I originally gave him a special because he said its a way girls keep regulars, so I gave him a one time special rate. Well, he continued to only pay that special rate and only would pay that. (Give a man an inch, he'll take a mile). While setting up details for my next incall, I notified him of the location and that the special rate is no longer available and never I heard back from him. (He's always good about returning calls & text to me).

Ugh... You live & you learnType of clients

When it comes to escort, you get what you pay for

I have a bad habit that all women are guilty of... comparing. I'm always "checking out" other women. Not because I'm attracted to them, but rather comparing their features to my own. When browsing through other escort ads on myredbook.com, I find myself comparing my own ad to those of other escorts. I must admit, you definitely get what you pay for. Pretty much every girl that I saw that charged less than $200 (average seemed to be $100 - $150 an hour) was extremely unattractive, never set foot in a gym, didn't put any pride into their appearance whatsoever, and only had a bunch of selfies with no professional pictures. I wouldn't be surprised if many of those girls were streetwalkers. All of the ebony or mixed escorts that were comparable to me were usually $200 and up, attractive, took pride in their appearance, had professional pictures, and didn't appear to look a "hood rat" (think Craig's girlfriend in the movie Friday with the blonde braids).
   If I paid for play, I would definitely rather pay a bit more and get better quality with an attractive escort rather than pay for a $80 quickie with a street walker that had a baby last week. But to each his own.

Times A Wastin'

As some of you may know, in this line of work, one of the biggest hurdles is time wasters. There are several ways of 'time wasting' but I'll start with the meaning first. A 'time waster' is a someone who has no potential of being a client, but still makes an attempt(s) to contact you. For example, yesterday I received a call from a man claiming he was the CEO of some random company (which I just so happened to look up and never found his name) saying that he'll send me money without even meeting me 😳. But what made me hang up on him was when he began rambling on about his '14 sisters' and how he has 'a beach house in San Diego worth millions' but would ignore my questions when trying to arrange a date. This man actually had the nerve to call back and leave a long winded voicemail repeating everything he stated to me.
I genuinely do not see the point of this, but I guess some men really want attention and have no way else to get it.

Dealing with my 1st No Show

So I had my first stand up this past Saturday. This person booked 2 hours and was suppose to be at the incall by noon. Well, after I tried calling and texting him by 12:20 pm (he never notified me that he would be late or not showing up and even confirmed appointment the previous day), I sent him an EXTREMELY rude text. Surprise, surprise... He immediately replied to the rude text, stating that he "just finished working with his clients" and he was "just about to call to let me know he on his way". WTF!!!! He even had the nerve to say that I was being "impatient" by calling him at 12:20pm and that he'll keep his money and spend it on someone more "deserving". Go ahead and keep that Monopoly money that you never planned on spending in the first place!!!!! Any providers in the San Fransisco Bay Area who would like the name this asshole, go ahead and send me an email. I'll be more than happy to give you his name.